I hear it from people all of the time. "I want to stay home as long as possible." 

This is a big reason that individuals aren't moving into Assisted Living or Memory Care. But do they know that participating in Adult Day Programs can help you live at home longer and a better quality of life at that? Unfortuately, most of the time, people don't know about Adult Day Clubs and the major benefits they offer. 

Exercise, spiritual services, snacks & meals, music and special outings are just some of the activities Club members can enjoy. Important services like bathing, medication management, and therapy - physical, speech or occupational - are offered as well. You can choose to participate in a full day or half day as well as which days you'd like to come Monday-Friday with door to door transportation available. 

For more information on the care, lifestyle and setting of Adult Day Clubs please contact Heather Liesenfeld at (952)948-5154 or hliesen1@fairview.org

The holiday season offers many opportunities to spend quality time with family and friends. If you are a caregiver or family member of an aging loved one, you may observe a change in their mood or behavior during the holidays. You may notice unusual signs of fatigue or sadness or perhaps limited interest in the holiday season.
The winter holiday season (and the colder months which accompany it) can intensify feelings of sadness which aging seniors often experience. Most often it is not the holiday itself that cause these types of emotions among the elderly, rather the fact that the holidays tend to bring memories of earlier, perhaps happier times.

How can you help an elderly loved one during the holidays?
​As a care giver or family member of a depressed older person, make it your responsibility to get involved. The elder person generally denies any problems or may fear being mentally ill, which can make it that much harder to know if the elder person is having any issues. You can help the elder person feel the magic of the season and feel loved by including them in general activities such as:

• Making holiday cookies - Including distributing them to neighbors, family and friends.
• Church Activities - If you or the elderly person is a church goer, churches are filled with holiday activities that need volunteers.
• Shopping - Holiday shopping can be time consuming, but it’s always nice to have a companion.
• Seasonal Crafts - So much to be made in such a little time.
• Vacation - Make it simple or complicated, visit family or even stay in town and see the sites as if you've never been.
• Caroling
• Decorating - Decorating a house can be time consuming, pulling out all the boxes and going through everything. Get the kids involved, make a day of it.
• Holiday Parties - It seems like people make the rounds, including an elderly person can help keep them occupied and social.
• Gift Wrapping - It seems like this never ends and it is an easy task.
• Christmas Lighting - Adding indoor lights can help get everyone in the season and aid in relief of Seasonal Affective Disorder.
• Volunteering - Remember to find something that fits the physical limitations of the elderly person. If they love kids, visit a children’s hospital. Feeding the homeless can be fun and humbling.
• Event Planning - Have a party you need to throw, help the elderly person feel
  productive and useful by making them the party organizer, even if it’s a small get together. Their opinion is important not only to them. Let them delegate tasks to you.
• Gift Making - Making gifts and being thrifty is the new Rolex of gifts, go on Pinterest and find some easy crafts or projects. Their blog will contain cost effective and fun gifts you can make during the season.
• Having a dance or a talent show - Keeping the kids and the elderly person busy, you can organize something easy and offer a fun prize.
• Ballet - This is a beautiful night out that any soul can appreciate.
• Introduce foods with better nutrition - Some depression can be caused in whole or in part by lack of good nutrition. Introduce and share food with the elderly that are high in Vitamins and Minerals. Remember that some foods can affect medications and spark flair ups of symptoms in certain ailments.
• Exercise - Physical limitations of most elderly make this hard. Try simple exercises and work your way up to more complicated ones with time.
• Getting a treatment
• A great haircut or hot shave can make you feel wonderful. A pedicure is a bonus for both men and women, most salons also do a leg massage during the pedicure.
• Friends - It is easy to neglect friends throughout your life, the same happens with the elderly, especially those who rely on a caregiver. Calling their friends and getting them together regularly can be a big help. No one relates better to the elderly, then the elderly. They are a great support system and can recommend items and products to each other to help with their needs.
• Feelings - It can be as simple as asking how are you feeling internally? Not everyone can tell you, most elderly don't want to burden their caregivers and loved ones. That doesn't mean you shouldn't ask.
• Fresh Air and Sunshine -
• Cold or warm, sunshine and fresh air is good for the soul, it also helps with Vitamin D.

If an elderly person's depression is linked to a passed loved one, the holiday season can make things particularly painful but discussing and reminiscing about the departed may result in sharing feelings that many have and need to let 0ut. The following might help:

• Scrapbooking about the person
• Caring on their story is very important for younger generations.
• Buying the deceased a gift - This can be a reminder of happier times and assist with openly keeping the deceased's memory alive.
• Making the deceased's favorite food
• Remembering aloud - Go around the room and each person says what you miss/love about those who have passed. This can help younger generations remember the deceased in a good light and help them manage death better in the later years.

For more ideas on how you can help your loved one during the Winter months and Holidays, visit us today or get in touch with Rachelle at 952.948.5181 - rlavali1@fairview.org

Seniors and Family Caregivers Benefit from Move to Assisted Living
On November 30, 2016 by Jodi Boyne

We hear it all the time: “I wish we had made this decision earlier.” A new survey now supports what many of us already knew -- seniors and their family caregivers experience measurable increases in quality of life after an older relative moves to assisted living. 
The Family Quality of Life Survey, conducted by A Place for Mom in collaboration with Sage Productions, sheds light on an all too familiar issue: hesitancy of family members to move a loved one into assisted living. 
Participants in the survey included family members of older adults who had moved to an assisted living community and family members who were still searching for housing for an older relative. 

Most (85 percent) of the family members who responded to the survey reported that they delayed investigating assisted living primarily because an older relative wanted to stay at home, and be cared for by someone they knew, for as long as possible. Other reasons for delaying this decision included:
·         Inability to find an affordable assisted living option (20 percent)
·         Difficulty finding information about assisted living (19 percent)
·         Inability of family members to agree on the best assisted living option (18 percent)
·         Negative perceptions of assisted living (16 percent)
“These findings really underscore the importance of getting good information about assisted living into the hands of older adults and their families,” said Steve Maag, Director of Residential Communities, LeadingAge. “We have more work to do as we strive to correct the misconceptions that consumers have about assisted living and give families the tools they need to make informed decisions about care options.”
After a move to assisted living, family members in the survey reported noticing these improvements in an older relative's life:
·         Quality of life (73 percent)
·         Nutrition (73 percent)
·         Social well-being (64 percent)
·         Emotional well-being (47 percent)
·         Physical health (44 percent)
In addition, family caregivers cited these personal benefits after moving an older relative to assisted living:
·         Level of stress about the older relative (64 percent)
·         Personal quality of life (60 percent)
·         Relationship with the older relative (50 percent)
·         Levels of health, diet and exercise (32 percent)
Almost three-quarters (70 percent) of family members whose relatives had moved to assisted living said their monetary well-being was largely unaffected after the move. 
Data showing that assisted living can be good for health and well-being is a message worth repeating in marketing materials and during community tours.
“The data clearly show that staying at home may not always be appropriate or helpful for every older adult, especially those who need increasing care and support,” Maag said. “Making a decision to move is never easy, at any age. But the decision could become much easier once older adults and their relatives know about all the benefits that a move to assisted living can bring.”